I have a wonderful group of friends. We don't see each other too often... we don't have a lot in common... but we have a lot.
2 years ago I met this lovely group of girls in the picture above. When we met we had one major thing in common... due dates. None of us knew that the group would evolve into what it has. In the beginning, I never imagined ever getting our babies together. We met for workouts and DQ ice cream every week (yes, in that order). When the first batch of babes were born (5 of them in the SAME weekend) we decided to get together.
This is our first "playdate." If we look tired it's because we were (and most still are). Most of the moms still hadn't had their babies (or even started mat leave).
Soon we were having regular playdates. The babies slept in their carseats... we shared coffee and timbits and stories of motherhood. In no time, we were so dedicated to our time together that we started messing with nap schedules to make it work. We alternated homes and most of us were (and still are) running late.
Then there were more of us... and before we knew it.... it was backyard BBQ time. The daddies finally met.... it was AWESOME!!
We made sure to book parties for Christmas and Halloween each year... the photo ops were too precious to pass up.
We had our Christmas party today. I had a smile on my face the whole time. I am in awe of those mommies and all that we have shared over the years. We have really formed a true friendship. It's nice.
I guess I'm trying to make a point. I usually am.
I just think that everyone needs a group of friends (or even one special friend) to share life with. And I feel bad just posting about the mommy group... because there are many other friends and many other mommies that have helped me along. I am just so thankful for ALL them.... for their friendship.... and for the way they make me feel welcome and comfortable to just be myself. Thanks to the modern advances of Facebook and "What's App," we find ourselves staying in touch much more than we should most days. It's not uncommon for me to get to my iPhone and see that I have 137 missed messages from the "Mamalicious" group. I think our husbands wonder what we could possibly talk about for hours a day... but it's all stuff.... it's significant to us.
I doubt our paths would have crossed if it weren't for Fitmom and DQ in the early days. But I know it's not a coincidence... nothing ever is. And who knows, we might end up being Kindergarten moms together. And maybe we'll line up our 16 year olds and their cars in a parking lot for a photo one day. And if we're REALLY lucky, we can pull out these pictures to share at their weddings. I'm excited to see where it will go.
Love you mommies. Thanks for everything.